Is it wrong of me to not want to show up to my deceased fathers Veterans Memorial Service in my boyfriend's vehicle that has a busted wind shield broken out side window ,and busted taillight covers and, a  broken out back window, ? My ex- boyfriend did this damage so it is because of his jealousy over my new relationship but id rather not show up in a car with duct taped windows ect.we argue about this everytime the subject comes up.looking for your opinion.thank you.

Am I wrong?