I have been feeling so insecure and needy even though i genuinely have a great new partner that I am wondering if this is even worth it. If i can even handle it. I overthink every text, feel abandoned if they dont reach out all the time. I am also worried if I tell them what is going through my mind they will run for the hills because it is not for them to deal with the consequences of my ex's behavior.  Am I really ready? Should I be honest with myself and take more time to heal even though i really want to experience this relationship?