For the first year and change, I was totally fine - I am busy enough adn have enough in the way of toys and the like to take care of myself, but recently I have noticed myself becoming quite sad? Recently they kissed me like they used to and i nearly started crying in our kitchen. I think I might miss the intimacy that comes with sex  even if I am okay without the act itself. I dont want to ask them to do anything they dont want to do, and I know it is something they're sensitive about so my question is: how do I talk about this with them? Do I talk about this with them at all?